Selling a home and moving to a new one can be an emotional rollercoaster for kids, especially if they have strong attachments to their current home. Here are some ways you can support them through this transition:
1. Acknowledge Their Feelings 😔
- Let them know it’s okay to feel sad, scared, or even angry about the move.
- Encourage them to express their emotions by talking, drawing, or writing about their feelings.
2. Involve Them in the Process
- Take them on home tours (if possible) and ask for their input.
- Let them help pack their own things to feel a sense of control.
- If they’re younger, make packing fun by turning it into a game.
3. Highlight the Positives ✔️
- Talk about the exciting aspects of the new home (bigger yard, new friends, fun activities nearby).
- If you’re moving to a new city, research fun places to visit together.
4. Say a Proper Goodbye
- Host a "goodbye party" or take a special last walk around the neighborhood.
- Let them take pictures or make a scrapbook of favorite memories from the old house.
5. Keep Routines as Consistent as Possible
- Try to maintain familiar daily routines before, during, and after the move.
- Set up their new bedroom quickly with familiar items to create comfort.
6. Visit the New Neighborhood (if possible)
- Take them to parks, schools, or favorite restaurants nearby before the move.
- If possible, set up a playdate with future classmates or neighbors.
7. Reassure Them of Stability
- Remind them that home is about family, not just a building.
- Let them know that their friendships can continue, and they will make new ones too.
8. Give Them Time to Adjust 🕰
- Be patient with mood changes or regression in younger kids (clinginess, trouble sleeping, etc.).
- Keep checking in with them after the move to see how they’re feeling.